Do U Think These Ppl Have Low Self Esteem?
So, i was in this forum… talking about fashion and beauty. There was a girl who said she went to Hongkong, China for holiday. and she said she didn’t really see any pretty ppl in China, but when she was in HK she saw alot.
So i replied to her and said: where about were u in China, i think most pretty ppl hang out in Central, your rarely see them in towns. Hk is more fashionable because they different from mainlanders.
^ That made some Chinese ppl very offended. So they been really rude, and calling me ignorant, childish and airheaded.
I gave my reason, and i said coz hk is smaller compare to china, so obviously they more fashionable. Also, i said, Hk has adopted a semi-western personality because they used to belong to UK, so they also have the attitude of ‘season must have’ …
I also said China is more of a colourful fashion compare to HK. Anyways, this didn’t go well. People said im twisting things.
They also think i’m claming their’s no pretty ppl in china, when i said ‘pretty one’s hang out in central, like central london.. etc..?
and i said, maybe they at home, so i couldn’t see them. and then later i said i was wrong, and that china is a big country .. so u would expect to find pretty ppl. but ppl were still offensive.
Later, it got firey, i kept getting attacked even after i told them i never meant it in offensive way. Especailly because im Chinese myself, so i said they have ‘low self-esteem’.
Do u think they have low self esteem?
in part chinese and im not offended. they are way to over dramatic.
i know what your trying to say. you see, hong kong has more pretty people cause THESE MORE PEOPLE THERE, compared to a small city somewhere in china. obviously. shanghai has more beautiful people there, cause it’s a MAJOR CITY, more people = more beautiful people. GET IT?? xD
tell that to them.
like, obviously shang hai + hongkong have more beautiful ppl there, because its a major city, and they’re more modern. get it?
would you be offended if you lived in a country with all of the same type of ethnicity people (like in the US it’s so diverse) and would you like it if a foreign person came and said no one was pretty?
i’m guessing you wouldn’t like that.
I wouldn’t say “low-self esteem”, but I don’t think they have anything to fire up about. Besides, you didn’t say that every single chinese person was ugly. You just said that some were, which is true. We can’t all be pretty
People just love to be annoying and start arguments with people online who they will never meet mostly because in real life people walk all over them and they cant stand up for themselves. Just ignore them.
You sound really racist and ignorant
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just CHILL OUT!
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idk dont worry about it youll never ever meet these people lol
You insulted their country of course they were offended, and no they do not have low self esteem. You basically called everyone in China who is not in central is ugly. That’s very offensive. This was the offending sentence btw “where about were u in China, i think most pretty ppl hang out in Central, your rarely see them in towns.”
You do not mention fashionable there you are talking about looks.
They said you have low self esteem because you implied that you think many Chinese people are ugly but then you are Chinese yourself.
They are defending themselves you are so completely in the wrong here.
Edit – No you did say there was no pretty people, or rarely do you see pretty people in towns, actually that is exactly what you said. You may not have meant it that way but it is what you said. I don’t believe that you were trying to be rude or anything but you certainly were.
Think about it this way what if I said “oh all the pretty people in Louisiana are in Baton Rouge, rarely do you see them in the suburbs” That is what you said (but about China), it’s clearly offensive.
Edit – I am not accusing you, I am rewriting your sentences exactly as you have written them. I am sorry you cannot construct a sentence that properly conveys what you were trying to say. People misunderstanding you has nothing to do with whether they are positive or negative, a clearly constructed sentence read by an intelligent person should have a clear meaning. I even went out of my way to say that I did not believe you were trying to be rude, which was me being anything but accusatory. You are the one being argumentative and defensive. If you only wanted the opinions of those who agreed with you than perhaps you should not have posted here.